Six Steps to A Romantic Night In: Valentine's Day at Home

With Valentine's Day falling on a weekday this year, you may have trouble getting away for a night out or even just out to a restaurant. With a little bit of preparation and planning, you can have a lovely and romantic night in with your Valentine.

The kids

If you've got little ones in the house, they probably already have a fairly early bedtime. Perfect! Just put them to bed at their regular time and start your evening after they've fallen asleep. For older kids, have them choose a movie or two and set them up with snacks and a show in another room. Tell them you'll ground them from video games til summer if they interrupt you. Or, if you're lucky enough to have relatives nearby, see if they'll take your kids for a few hours (or overnight!).

The prep

One of the benefits of staying in is not having to wear uncomfortable shoes all night, but yoga pants don't exactly say "hot momma." So try to find a happy medium. Shave those legs. Trim that mustache. Pluck that nose hair. And THEN put on the comfy pants. Maybe just choose a nice stain-free shirt instead of that frumpy sweatshirt.

The mood

Candles, flowers, and no visible dishes, laundry and toys are all you really need to set the mood. 

The meal

Does your Valentine have a favorite dish that doesn't get made very often because it's too spicy for the kids/ takes too long to prepare/ has too many expensive ingredients for a family meal? Now is the time to dig out that recipe and make it just for the two of you. 

Don't have a favorite in mind? It's hard to go wrong with a couple of steaks. My hubby makes the very best marinade ever:

Scott's awesome steak marinade

Ingredients:

• 1-1/2 cups olive oil
• 4-1/2 Tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce
• 1-1/2 Tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
• 3 Tablespoons red wine vinegar
• 2 Tablespoons Montreal steak seasoning
• 1 Tablespoon crushed garlic
• 1 Tablespoon garlic-pepper blend

Directions:

Combine all ingredients. Pour over steak, cover, and chill at least three hours to overnight in the refrigerator. Grill or broil steak to your liking (just know that anything over medium-rare is considered "charcoal" in many parts of the country).

Keep the rest of the dinner light with a nice side salad and a glass of sparkling cider or your favorite wine. For dessert, I can't think of anything better than chocolate. Pick up something decadent from the local bakery or try this slow cooker recipe:

Slow-cooker molten mocha cake

Ingredients:

• 4 eggs, lightly beaten
• 1/2 cup (1 stick) butter, melted
• 2 teaspoons vanilla
• 1-1/2 cups sugar
• 1 cup flour
• 1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa
• 2 teaspoons instant coffee granules
• 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
• 1/4 teaspoon salt

Directions:

Spray a 3-quart slow cooker with cooking spray (you can use a larger slow cooker; just add 30 minutes to 1 hour of cooking time). Stir together all ingredients in a large bowl. Pour into the slow cooker. Cover and cook on LOW for 2 to 2-1/2 hours, or until set around the edges. Turn off the slow cooker and let stand for 30 minutes (keep covered). Serve warm with vanilla ice cream or whipped cream.

If you don't feel like cooking a whole meal, you can also bring in some covered berries or sweet treats from Scoops McDonough, Sweet Ashleys, or another local bakery.

The movie

So. Many. Choices!!! We bet one of these will make you swoon while you snuggle up on the couch:

Cool classics